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What is Parental Alienation?

Parental alienation is when a parent turns a child against the other parent, therefore causing the child to become hostile and resistant towards the alienated parent. Parental alienation occurs in many ways which include making degrading comments about their other parent, asking intrusive questions of the child when they are with their other parent, giving the child the impression that their other parent does not love them, involving the child in adult matters, limiting and/or restricting visitation and contact with their other parent, and making negative comments about their other parent. These behaviors leads to the child rejecting or not wanting to spend time with the alienated parent.

If your child is a victim of parental alienation, they will demonstrate symptoms such as:

  1. Being distant towards the other parent;

  2. Showing hate towards the alienated parent;

  3. Being silent around the alienated parent;

  4. Disrespecting the alienated parent and showing deference to the other parent; and

  5. Retaliating or disrespecting the alienated parent.

The alienated parent can seek the court’s intervention to make sure that their relationship with their child is restored if it is safe and in the best interest of the child to do so. Each case is unique and complex and the court is aware of how difficult these matters are. The court may order therapy and have other child care professionals get involved to assist the family. If you believe that your child is suffering from parental alienation, please contact us at (443) 741-2567 and we will help you seek the court’s intervention.

What is Contempt of Court in Family Law Matters?

Contempt of court matters can only be filed after the court has already issued a court order outlining what each party must do in their divorce, child custody, and/or child support matter. In Maryland, if someone does not comply with a court order for child or spousal support, they can be found in contempt of court. Md. Code, Family Law § 11-110 specifically sets out the courts powers which include imprisonment of the nonpaying party. However, if the nonpaying party can prove that they are not able to pay, jail will probably not be the result.

Violating a court-ordered custody and visitation schedule can also result in contempt of court. If a party is denying or interfering with the other parent’s custodial time with out justification, the court may find that person to be in contempt of court. The court will either order make-up time or modify the existing court order make sure everyone complies with it in the future.

In any contempt matter, the court may order attorneys fees against the other party if they are found to be in contempt. Contempt of court is a powerful and necessary tool that enables the aggrieved party to file an action with the court and seek the court’s intervention. It is important to note that contempt of court matters require evidence. The more evidence that you have to prove that the other party is unjustifiably disregarding the court order, the higher your chances of success you will have. To learn more about contempt matters or if you would like to discuss your case with us, please call us at (443) 741-2567 and we would be happy to discuss your case with you.

What is an Advance Directive?

An advance directive is a legal document that allows you to decide what you want to happen in case there is a medical emergency or if you get sick. It gives healthcare providers specific instructions on what you want while you are being treated. Examples include being able to tell your doctor whether you want to be placed on life support, whether you want CPR, whether you want medicine for pain relief, or whether you want life-prolonging treatments. You can also name a healthcare agent who can speak for you about what medical care you want. This person can be your family member or someone else. It is important to pick someone that you trust as these are serious decisions. It is also important to sit down with your healthcare agent and tell them your wishes to prevent any misunderstandings about your care.

If you have any questions, please call us at (443) 741-2567 and we would be happy to answer all of your questions.